Callasdad ~ you know the guy sent your very own wife flowers, right? And you know she is secretive about the flowers, right? Enough right there to pay a visit. I think you can find a way to call him out publicly without mortifying your associates there. If you really think through what you say before you go, you can choose a dignified address for his actions. I wouldn't go in there like a brute, though. Loud enough for those in close proximity to hear, but not loud enough to disturb the peace in the legal sense. Careful wording will go a lot further than volume, won't it.

And yes, I would put the tail on her for the Friday night beer. No question.
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