I agree with you Daddy; I've asked for a lot of changes from my H in our M, and have been making a lot myself. MWD's book 'Change Your Life and Everyone in it' has helped me a lot. Now that I've begun to change, my H also has in response. And it's happening because my attitude and communications - ie that which he is responding and reacting to, - has changed.
I do like a good redemption story
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-