Please Help Me

[MESSIMADE]

Call me a whinner if you will...but I don't seem to be getting much feed back and I was wondering why?

Have I offended everyone somehow? Is my story to much to deal with?
Is my sitch a lost cause?
Is it odd that I am a wayward spouse and trying to DB? I see most here are the BS looking at trying to get WS out of the fog and back to reality.

I'm just looking for some good advice from you guys b/c I love my wife and don't want to loose her. I love my kids and don't want to share them everyother weekend.