Thanks, Coach. I justed put this on the other thread in response to someone else. I'd like to keep all the posts HERE for continuity. I have OM address, cell number, work location. I have his business card! What type if intel do I need? He isn't married. I'm considering have an "associate" tail my wife Friday after work to see where she goes. She's been saying "beer night with work" for 6 weeks. I'm wondering how many people from work or just him? And he lives in that town, too.
She texted this morning whether D slept ok. 'Yes' You had to go in early? Big meeting or busy 'Both' OK. Have a good day then 'Will do. You too' AN hour later- How about take out pizza from the new place? 'Sure. Sounds good'
I've seen the Chatty Kathy routine before. Usually after she does something odd. Guilt is a b*tch, eh?
I'm not sure what other things I can do to find out how deep this EA/PA goes other than actually following her to see if it leads to him. Looking after a two year old makes it hard since somebody has to be with her so I can't be Magnum PI myself. A shame cause I'm really good at it. It'd be easier to get a GPS tracking device on her vehicle so at least I can see where she is. Better would be in her phone but it's locked and glued to her hand. BBerry is uncrackable.
Thanks everyone. Just need a plan/mindset until we all agree on a boundary/confrontation script.
