After the make up sex and the talks, I think, chapters 5 and 6 in the book become really important. Identifying Patterns That Work and Interrupting Destructive Patterns.
We speak so much about "doing something different" in a period of crisises to encourage people to get their heads screwed on straight and think clearly, but after the reconcillation, diffusing / avoiding the arguments before they happen that is equally if not more important part of Divorce Busting.
Remember people don't change.
"People don't change", I'm not sure I agree with it. People change when they really want to or if they have to.
Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
Congratualations and Good Luck, and once again beautiful and passionate response!
