Husbands OW and his illness

[gr8 day 2B alive]

I love my husband and have have done a 180 to show him that I believe we can reconcile and save the marriage but am not sure he will ever see that. I have gone to the hospital andhe seems generally happy to see me and has sent several texts saying nice things. Am I reading too much into this or is this life changing scenario what is needed for him to reevaluate his choices?

These are my views and opinions, take them for what there worth.

If illness never happened to H, would he still be with OW?

If H is impotent, does OW want to be with him? If no then are you your H's safety net?

Life changing events can make people change so if you follow that route please go slow and make sure the changes are permanent.

Side thought, people who have a heart attack(Life Changing Event)make changes to their diet and exercise.
After 6 months over 60% of them go back to the same life style as before the attack.

Doing the right thing requires hard work.