Fud,

How did that does of reality come about? Did you start talking about your marriage and such?

Quote:

Twice we separated and that 'did the trick'


Trick : ) glad you put that in quotes.

Fud...when you guys got back together from those, had either of you actually improved your relatiosnhip or personal skills? Or just kindda sort of happy to be back and slid back into old bad habits?


We both went to an MC and he taughts us how to communicate better.

An IC...tends to figure out what you want and helps you move toward that goal...and remember the IC only hears ONE side of the story...the good ones KNOW that.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet