I'm thinking it's #3 - he has gone to such extremes of late to keep information from me that it's ridiculous. Everything from hiding his wallet, office & car keys whenever he's away from them for more than a few minutes (shower, lawn work) to taking his briefcase to horseback and Knights of Columbus meetings so I won't look in it while he's gone.
It's insane, really - being a kinder and gentler WH on one hand yet ridiculously suspicious on the other. This is wearing me out...
