W, I agree we need to get the tire fixed today. You caught me a little off guard this morning driving to work. If you can get it up to Joe's garage, I can pick it up on the way home tonight. That way it will be done in a day instead of being tied up for two whole days if I take it in.
you are still trying to make it your way (fixing).
Just ask, "How can I help you?" Then she can answer with exactly what she wants. She gets what she wants and you then are on your way to getting what you want.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.