At work and lunch is the only time he could be talking to her or seeing her. The ONLY time! He does not have a cell phone and as far as email goes I cant see his work email The gift is not a gift but it was her necklace and he was carrying it around in his pocket. He has yet to say ILY...but has said it in the past year. We have been sleeping together and he usually holds me all night. SO I guess that is good. But I dont know what he can do. He lied for a very long time to me. What do I need to do.