1. your wife is trying to persuade you NOT to "throw her out" 2. OM is exposing himself for the interloper he is
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1. I would STILL try to get the PO for your kids on OM as well... Tell the police he showed up at your wife's workplace... Ken you need to do this FAST.. If you wait a week they will just bounce you OUT of there... If OM tries to call your wife's phone and she makes it CLEAR to you that she doens't want him calling.. get a PO on HIM too for HER.. tell her you want to do this
2. This is gonna be a LOT EASIER for you Ken once OM is gone... Your wife is already showing signs she wants to work with you and doesn't want to leave
3. What do you mean you don't understnad how she can be nice after yelling at you earlier? She's ADDICTED KEN.. we have been SAYING that for MONTHS! Don't you know what the implications of that ARE?
Do some research on addictions Ken... do it FAST... you need to understnad what withdrawal is...