still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

Hi, I will be checking in from time to time to post on others' threads but I don't know if I'll have much to say on mine!

I think I am in shock. I haven't cried at all yesterday or this morning. I was exhausted and tried to go to bed at 5:30 but wasn't THAT tired, I guess! So I crashed at 8.

I got the acceptance of service paper notarized and had it ready for WH this morning when he picked up S. He looked at it like "Oh. Ok."

Yes, I believe he is being pressured but he is a 34 year old man and is capable of standing up for himself if he wanted to! Also he must want to be with her, at least for now. I mean he is moving in with her into a new place in a nice neighborhood, leasing for a year. He could have said no at any step of the way. I am sure he is buying new furniture for the place.

And Red, I do appreciate your optimism! But I am going to just let the divorce happen. If he decides to stop it in the process, I would be amazed, but it would show he still is strong after all. I do think he is moving to my town to be closer to S. (He is seeing me the same amount regardless of whether he lived in the town 25 miles away or not) I do think he is finding that he is still attracted to me, so that should make him think twice about how he said "those feelings are just gone." I think his texting is just because I initiated the texts.