She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

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Believe me, D sucks and it's a total drain on energy and money.

So far, in the past year and a half we've spent about $15,000 and god knows how many hours of time, emotional turmoil, colateral damage, extra hardship on the kids, and countless other 'costs'.

I sometimes imagine what we could have done with all those resources if we had actually aimed them at rebuilding our marriage. I did all I could. But what a waste of life.

You're wife has to take a leap of faith. She has to just let go and trust the process. If she doesn't show up to the field, you guys will never have a chance to rebuild.

My W never showed back up. She claims she tried - all I'll give her is she tried to try. But she never came back in.