Yeah, doing what I can to detach... but man is it ever easier said than done.

The way you paint your H he sounds like a nice guy that needs to grow up. Helping him to grow up from that kind of a distance is going to be a hard order though. It feels strange to use your current relationship as a training ground. It makes sense, but it feels weird.

Thanks for the A+.... Its weird, but I have trouble rewarding myself/thanking myself for any part of this.


And yeah, I guess you're right... the move probably was the breaking straw.


Me: 29
H: 25
T:7yrs
M:5yrs

Bomb: 23/04/10

Had no idea anything was wrong. Cheated so she could end it without talking.