NewMama,

Been thinking about some of your recent posts and am not sure his filing is a "done deal" - unless you want it to be.

He:
*Held off nearly a month before telling you he'd filed
*Is moving closer to you to "be near son"
*Has been texting regularly
*Stared at your hand when you touched his arm recently, as if he was surprised that he was still attracted to you
*Was surprised that you were thinking about moving

I may be wrong, but he sounds like he filed under duress from OW. Check with forum vets "Greek" and "The Wifey" - they both had WAS who left, filed, and then returned. I'd also solicit a man's take on the matter from Puppy and Allen.

Just a thought. Do with it as you will...