you always said i was better to my friends and put them before you so maybe if you and i were friends....
Jstar, I believe alot of times in relationships when communication is not the way it should be or if the other partner has taken the other for granted, that people begin to lose their patience or understanding with loved ones.This even happens to some degree in Parent child relationships.
Now, that doesnt mean he doesnt love you or even loves his friends more, it is just he still has his friend/nice guy radar on with them as he would a stranger or employer. I would guess with all the arguing and yelling that has gone on it started to become a pattern of behavior.
You can change that pattern with patience, validation, taking a breather. You change yourself to change him, dont give into the arguing the fighting it is no good for either of you. Try to discover your triggers and maybe if he knew his you all could work to head those off at the pass!
M 36 W 29 Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months Daughter 15 months Bomb 4/22/10 Separated since 4/25/10 OM 6/10/10 Hopeful, but moving on
