NM, it's taken me 24 hrs to write, I was so choked up to read your post, and really I just want to give you so many big hugs.
I can see how strong you are today, in the face of receiving those papers, your WH's text message..the lot. I just know you will be okay, because you are really one of a kind - intelligent, thoughtful, caring, giving. I wish I was half the "LBS" (horrible term!) that you have been. Grace and dignity all the way.
And NM, you have helped so many of us here. I hope you will continue to do so, but also keep us up to date with how you are feeling and what you are doing. Will you do that?
Your WH is never going to get over leaving you.

Peace NM. We are with you.


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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