G, thanks for stopping by! 5 days home from hospital and posting on others threads - impressed!
I am surprised you hate your WH as much as I hate mine!! At lease your WH doesn't have OW so you can kinda feel sorry for him & his crisis... Mine is in crisis but won't admit it, and the OW stuff is just killing me. Unfortunately they are only going to have 7 days together, so I bet it will be romance all the way!
After a string of angry and hurt emails to WH, I sent one this morning that aplogises for saying hateful things, that I love him but understand he needs to be gone now and that one day i will be open to peaceful coparenting. I wanted to have my last email to him to be like a 'release' letter.
Now I need to go dim and stay as distanced as possible, as you say.
My dad went to see him today to talk about how he is going to help us financially. WH promises to do so. But I'm frustrated cos nothing is certain - probably wont be till he gets stable work. I felt a bit upset with my Dad who got sucked in by WH saying how much he is sorry and loves the baby etc. Dad burst into tears with me - he finds the whole thing so upsetting. He loved my WH, but at least he told WH he's only interested in my wellbeing and that of child now.
So much crap to deal with.
I am feeling pretty low but psych today says I am not depressed. Everything is normal.
Pls help me guys keep up the minimal contact with WH. I am probably going to have to do a lot of ranting on here to survive this period.
