My Father in Law just called me...H came to see him today and told him what's going on with us. My father in law is really, really upset and said that he has very hard time believing this, that he is so shocked, that it seems impossible that this would happen to us, that we were the strongest couple that he knew and for him we were an example of what a good marriage should look like.
He told me they are there for me and that I will always be part of their family and that he will pray for us....I of course started to cry....still crying.....
My FIL is recovering from cancer surgery, he is not very strong right now and had a terrible year battling cancer. He sounded so beaten, old and down and so devastated by this news...told me that he can't talk more right now, it's just to hard....
I'm so angry with my H right now for what he has done to this family....the pain....the destruction....the selfishness.....I almost hate him right now........
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO