Oh Gatsby!!! Congratulations!!! been thinking of you and the little one!!!
Wow! to your H hanging around and finding your place comforting and wanting to hang out with you... thumbs up! I remember someone posting on my thread, to create a home for H to come back home to... i have to go back and see what they said, but basically saying be a comfort zone... without being a doormat! i know, its ironic... but it made sense when they wrote it on my wall... i am really botching it up. lol
Originally Posted By: gatsby11
Bottom line is that I don't really know where to go with him, but I have no expectations for our relationship.
you dont have to do a thing! Just be you... be a mommy... let him do the work... and no expectations is best. Let him see how wonderful you are... if you love yourself and are good to yourself and exude happiness and confidence and sheer bliss, H will notice immediately!
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I do have expectations for his fatherly duties!
Good for you! Dont be afraid to spell the expectations out for him... no mind guessing here. Say what you want or expect, and this way he cant misinterpret what you want...
Hope your are enjoying the mommy life and getting some sleep!!!
