This is not going the way I'd hoped.

She is more DETERMINED than ever to get a divorce. She had a talk with her mom about the OA after I exposed.

But she is still so angry about losing her "friends" that all her negative emotions flow towards me.

Apparently, I am "grasping at straws" and it is "so very pathetic".

I don't know who I can trust with all this. I gave her parents the video, and they watched it. But she told me that her mom said "I should back off and talk to my own family for a while".

I WONT give up hope, will keep doing my 180s and detach. I think I've got her to go to counseling with me, but only "to smooth the divorce process over" as far as she in concerned.

This truly is my last resort. At least the other guys aren't talking to her and giving her the "support" she wants, although she is almost dying for it from them.

I can only hope this fades with time, and she doesn't become even more determined to go through with this.


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed