Knight, you can speculate all you want. It will get you nowhere. Every WAS shares similar characteristics and actions, but they all react differently towards the LBS methods. Some are just done, and it makes no difference what the LBS does. Some are done, until they can hit rock bottom on their own and realize all they lost. If you are going to have a R with this woman, she may have to hit rock bottom herself. There is nothing you can do there, but step aside and let her fall. IF you decide to be there when she comes back, if she comes back, then that is your choice. However, I suggest you just detach for your own sanity. Take care of your D and yourself.
