Jayce! Yes it's been a while I still lurk though... hehe.
You know LuckyGirl was just that - she came here looking for answers - let her H know she was hurting from the lack in their SL - and BAM! fixed her M to her satisfaction.
I've been riding a roller coaster of emotions lately. I fear that my M is as good as it is going to get and I want more... sigh
We still ML once about every 7-10 days. It's so much better now than it was when I first came here 2 years ago (Wow! it's been 2 years?). I'm still hung up on the way that Mrs. Cinco won't open herself to me. I know you can relate to that one Jayce.
She clams up during ML. Doesn't want to get outside of her comfort zone. The last few months its seems like we are going backwards. All this time she has continued with a woman's group that meets once a week with our ST. It's a how to turn your mojo back "ON" group.
The thing that has improved most, to use Schnarch's terms, is that she has gotten really good at doing me. I mean it is truly wonderful the way that she makes me feel.
Trouble is she isn't comfortable with being done. Since I enjoy doing even more than my being done, it's like there is something missing. I just want make her to feel the earth shaking, I love to do that for a woman. It's a gift from me that she just doesn't want to receive.
Effing? Well since you have to both simultaneously do while at the same time being done, that ain't happening.
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I'm glad to read about your progress Jayce. It is a slow process and then you never know how far it will take you. It's always seems so simple for us HD's. Our LD spouses must think we are just insatiable.
