My Plan is go Dark, let her file D. Because she can pony up the 750.00 if she really wants it. And once she does, I go for Full Custody. If she doesnt file before CPS is finished in my sitch then well I will get all my documentation together and request my DD1 stay with my sister and then we go to court.

Once I win full custody, I will make sure to request Psych eval for BPD etc.. And that she has a car, a nice place, and has no idiots around my daughter.

I will accept no less. If she decides she wants to come home and make it work, Ill think about it, after she gets help.


M 36
W 29
Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months
Daughter 15 months
Bomb 4/22/10
Separated since 4/25/10
OM 6/10/10
Hopeful, but moving on