that sounds like a good boundary.

goes for me as well.

kinghtinneed, what's the status of your sitch?

ive tried setting ground rules for us but we both get so angry it all goes out the window.

examples,

cursing at one another, we both do it.
disrespecting one another

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline