i do think she helps but i can barely afford the co-pay. plus i owe her like 300 dollars because i missed a couple of appointments when i was so stressed out and he refuses to pay it. while he spends 400 a month on drums for his pagan drum circle gstherings, he bitches and moans about how poor he is. he spends 1000 a month to have his own place... i guess i wont be getting a job. what an asswhipe.
Hate to say this because you probably don't want to hear it, but I think you need to talk to your lawyer about taking him to the cleaners financially. He helped put you into this frame of mind, he needs to give you the financial security to have a chance to get really good help to get out of it.
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