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[knightinneed]

JStar My WAW and I had the same type of behavior, and I was a bit like your H. She would Nag Nag, or say I wasnt doing this or that and get nasty and sometimes Id say we need a divorce.

I think the D word became like a Big Red Button to push honestly as a empty threat because I regret ever saying it to her. I did alot of damage using that word, to the point where she said Home didnt feel like home.

I would really ask your H to understand that word is not to be used lightly, because it seems as if it is being waved around like a empty threat, because of anger and not really wanting a divorce.