Geez, I'm sorry you are hear but I'm glad you are at peace. As for OM's OW, why not inform your w that you don't want YOUR kids over at OM's place if there are going to be OW's there, so they are not exposed to any more OW's when they're there, "since ya know, OM dates OWs and all".... why on earth would HIS son make it up and have HIS mother tell YOU??? No motive to lie and too detailed to be false...
As for L's, I'm glad you are shopping. Feel a "connection" to one and let that be a guide. I'm serious. Knowledge is power. Don't get all cheapskatish either, (think about what is really at stake, and whether you should start skimping NOW)
but make sure the L has actually gone to trial once in awhile, so you know they will IF needed. And since your W seems able to rationalize and compartmentalize, expect some interesting justifications on her end. (Or total surrender and a major flip out.)
(SIGH)
Pigskin, I feel for you. I really do. Someday a lucky woman will meet you and you WILL get past this my friend, you really will. You're right. There ARE women out there who just want a normal guy who treats them decently. (See Faithisbelieving's thread for a funny and interesting take on what's out there at our stage of life...)
((( j )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
