Opti, you focus on getting your daughter adn you as primary caregiver, your wife is NOT stable enough to handle that right now... And you taking that on sets an example of adulthood..
I really don't know about you backing off and giving her space etc...
My advice is for you to find a good family therapist and set an example by going on your own... after a few sessions if you like the FT have the FT put a hand written invite on the card and leave the card for your wife...
I am at a loss today, did you confront OM's wife if he's married?
I will have to read back to find out what exposure you did and how deep...
What about her parents? SOrry, I know this is all in teh thread, I have had a very long day at work, it may help to have a summary for everyone to read so we know where you aer at just from reading one post
