We haven't seen anyone on the coparenting part, that's a good suggestion but I doubt she'll be open to it.
My only thought was that if I bring up my stuff (tools really) before she says anything about them she'll know that I care about them and could say I want part of the total value of them.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again