This is how my H's "friendship" began when he reconnected with an old female friend whom he has known from long before he and I ever met. Secret friendship is usually not just friendship IMHO.

As far as advice.. there are a lot of experienced people here... I'm still working on my marriage with this issue.. I'll let someone else start.

(I know, Allen A.. not being confident in my own knowledge.. still working on that...)

Last edited by elvencat; 06/15/10 11:59 PM.
Me 32, H 34, DD 3
M 6, T 8
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OW Bomb 6/5/10
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