Hey everyone...interesting discussion...I should put that book on my list.

When H dropped the bomb the end of August, he said the it had been going on for about a year...started as an EA and had turned into a PA right before bomb drop. It wasn't a secret to me but he still snuck around behind my back and hid his wallet, keys phone etc. OW let the cat out of the bag in Feb. at their work place...she and H moved in together after he filed the end of Feb. soooo...it is not a secret since then...

Sooo...approx 1 yr and 10mos since the A started and 4mos since it has not been a secret.

Wonder how long it will take for those pesky hormones to wear off?

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing