i am concerned that he stringing me along, but at the same i do want to see him, to date him. that was his suggestion, but only if i 'get a job'. the problem with that is kind of stirred up in my divorce, you see, my counselor think i have ptsd from abuse and if i work it will just prove that he owes me less alimony, it also would simply change the way our finances are split, to where i have to give him some of it. i want to work it out, but if i can't i want as much money as i can get, of course. i'm so screwed. i was thinking abou sayng nothing and ust letting my attorney send my counter offer. he is trying to put off the divorce until the statute fall soff for the abuse i think and i can't file a civil suite for personal damages. its all so screwed up.
