I have a protective order for my house. He can't come around the house. I'll have to look into getting one for me.
YES!!!!
Ken, I know this has been very hard b/c I think I know what kind of person you are by the posts you have left. You have a gentle, caring heart, but that also can appear to be passive to a WAW. I realize that it may seem as if you get hit over the head with some things, but remember that we've been in a stitch similar to yours. With me, of course, I was the WAW and my H was very much like you. If he had not stepped up and be the man he had to be....I would not be home and respecting him as the head of our home. There is no promise that your W will change back to the W you want, but she sure won't if you "don't" do what you've been advised.
I am proud of you making the decision to protect your home. Good for you!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
