Ken, the PHYSICAL stuff is the LAST to return usually...
You got a protective order.. GOOD... another dent in this dreamland they created... as long as your wife is in the home OM can't come around... I guess he will be notified of this by someone?
Details on the PO?
The idea here ken is to get the law involved to raise the stakes even MORE.. it takes the excitement out of the affair and helps wake yoru wife up.. it will take TIME, but if she sees a protective order to keep OM away from her home it WILL make a dent in her wall.. it takes time and its a slow proccess...
Good job ken... get one for your kids and you if you can...
The more law you throw at this guy and in your wife's face the less fun this little affair is... It becomes an embarassment instead...
TELL people Ken, exposse the PO to people in church to shame the guy too... don't keep teh PO a secret... let everyone know you had to do that to protect your home.
