I am back...and finding me

[beingreal]

The irony is that every woman wants to be loved the way you love your wife and she just doesn't see it now.

Hey Eric-o... ^^^ THIS ^^^


I've said it before, I really think one day she *will* see how much you loved her & what kind of man you've become. She may never let on that she has realized it..but I think she will. By that time you may have moved onto a woman who deserves that love & returns it tenfold.

If your W is very lucky, that woman might be her.



I've found myself defending H as well. From the very beginning. Even now I've had a few people make comments about his losing everything in the fire. "Awww, poor baby."

Seriously? This is fodder for some people? This is devastating to watch anyone go through this--it's someone I love & really am concerned about. How could I even remotely be happy about this?

Now if someone says something disparaging about H, I usually just remind them that we were very happy for six years. It doesn't matter what happens now, you can't negate that.

So no, I don't think it's abnormal. I think it's perfectly acceptable. She is still a part of you, words meant for her still sting you.

That's what happens when you give your heart to someone else.



Hang in there guy. I'll be thinking of you.

(((hugs)))