Normally, I am a reasonable person. Normally, I don't rant. My bad days are outnumbering my good ones 3-1. I don't think WS really wants a divorce, or he'd be pushing it, and he hasn't, other than the original filing. Now, my daughters, who grew up as sisters to his sons are agitated that the boys, who have the same opinion as I of OW, do not block her on Facebook and are friendly to her. I understand, this is their father, they are not blind,but what choice do they have? This stupidity is tearing my entire family, 7 kids & 12 grands apart. Before it's all over, they won't be talking, and our family will be totally destroyed. How can this not matter to him at all? I've prayed and prayed and 'God works in mysterious ways' is just not pulling it off for me on this one.
I want to be a positive person. I've worked very hard at moulding 7 kids into one family. I'm normally described as happy and comical. Now, I just feel wasted.