Quick update: H Has been to visit 3 times this week. This is due to him wanting to do things for us. Small things. During his last visit, he began by askig if I was ok? then proceeded to ask about my job, my colleagues, my job role, if I was happy at work etc. I got eye contact and he seemed like he was really listening. He started to open up a little about his feelings about his job and how unhappy he is. I know I have read somewhere that these can be signs of the script of reconnection. As OW is still there I guess it can only be a touch and go, but it feels more than that. He did comment on how he was supposed to have gone out with OW one nignt but had got out of it. I wondered by this comment if he was starting to awaken, or if maybe replay was coming to an end. H was very low and very depressed. More depressed than I have seen for a long time. No expectations, but seeing some signs of movement through the tunnel. I think he may Withdraw for a while now.
