I have a protective order for my house. He can't come around the house. I'll have to look into getting one for me. Thanks Allen for that suggestion.

Sandi, you're right. I need to stop pleading and get back to my 180's.

SeeingRed, that is a very accurate description of what seems to have happened. It's just as if aliens have taken over her body.

Thanks for the encouragement. It's so hard to be patient with this. Often I wonder if she'll EVER come back around. I haven't touched her for months now and she certainly is not approaching me for affection. That's hard to take. On the contrary, she is still "spewing venom", saying "I'm not in love with you", "I would need a brain transplant to love you", etc. Hearing that makes me feel depressed.


My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.