OK, back to my original thought, play squash with him. No pressure and no expectations.
this is why squash works for me. i don't feel pressure and i have no expectations. i go to play the best game possible. i hate letting my partner and opponent down if i'm playing poorly and that's the only pressure i feel. so i play with the goal of being the best i can be.
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Go back to being the woman he feel in love with. Be very sensual when you play - get all the senses involved (be a cupcake).
no more dumpy shorts for me. i play in a stylish skirt. but i also have that competitive spirit in me. i'm not there to be eye candy. i'm feminine but i have no problems beating the guys.
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Be mysterious when you leave, be the first to go, be interesting and interested, always have a plan, be clear about your goals and have some fun.
ok. i'll try to be the one to leave first. last night, i had a good game going so i left after he did. he left early because there wasn't anyone to play with.
my partner and i kicked butt! i was so happy with our game. my night started out bad - missed so many shots. but by the end of the night, i played really well.
btw, i forgot to mention. i am learning to stop digging. a few times, i could have tore into him with snarky comments but i found myself stopping at the right point.
