yeah, thats how he alwsy talks to me and i never talk othim.... its almost like a 180, believe it or not for me. read my sitch. its basically like mirroring his communication style he could have written the letter himself. i hate hate hate talking that way, believe me. but i think it may be the right thing to do. i never have said anyting he did wrong. he beat me severely with a belt, cheated on me and all the while i took responsibilty for it all... its a hard one... i will consider what you said but i dont know if in my case its the right thing to do. i have been a spineless fool for so long frown