help some advice plse..have i finished it for good

[JacT]

My h appeared at his works night out with the OW.They were very uncomfortable for all of the evening and didnt mingle.He even had to take her to the loo and had to wait outside for her! they left early..his senior boss wife said to our mutal friend who was also there,Look at him,who the hell does he thinnk he is, and as for her shes a dog..H did introduce her to our friend although briefly only becuase she bumped into them..she said he was very plain and dowdy and seriously lacking in confidence. She said her hair was poker straight and stuck to her head..he didnt ask for her H who was one of his best friends.She said he no longer cares.I said it wasnt about caring it was about avoidance to deal with hurt he has caused to many people...What a way to live..her knowing that everyone there know what she is and whats she done to a family..and him thinking everyone likes him and just laughing at the fool he making of himself....