Lees they will continue to destroy themselves and others.They cannot destroy you unless you let them.They are not worth it.Start building a scrap book of pics that reflect what you want your life to look like,set some goals and whilst Scotland isnt a possibility right now you can make it one.
As for you boss F*** him/her you have many friends who will help you through this...


ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith