mhl, you are very strong. You're so much better at validating than I am ... I am going to take a page out of your book.
You're doing really well, chat later.
Peace PEI
PEI, Thank you for the vote of confidence, I do feel myself getting stronger and finding it easier to not get "caught up" in some of the things my W says or does. I know there is more pain ahead, I was just telling Grit that today. Less than a week ago I was in the fetal position on the "Little Friday" Patio.
I will say this about the "playbook"....Everyone on these boards are my playbook, the advice and support here is amazing.
I also have to say that I am lucky to have a fellow DBer around the corner from me, he no longer posts, but offers his wisdom and more than the occassional 2X4. He lurks and he will read this and he knows what a good friend he is, and I thank him for helping me be accountable.
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
