She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

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It's just as difficult to rebuild as it is to get a D according to my W. She sees tham both as just as draining and hard on everyone involved. I absolutely disagree with her rational.

Although it is difficult at times to rebuild a failing M, it can be very rewarding. D however is painfull to go through and has lasting effects on everyone involved. that has been my theory, but my W doesn't see it that way.

I myself have changed incredibly since the bomb was dropped. This change is what has made my W reconsider our D and come up with the idea for Mc and weekly date nights. her inability to drop her gaurd and let me in her circle is what's preventing us from moving forward.

We have definately progressed soince this first started, but we have not been progressing. What hasn't helped the situation is the conflict she's created with D15. we seem to have to deal with that too much, not allowing us to work on the relationship.