Just to clarify: "I keep thinking back to MY SPOUSE telling the lawyer, when THE LAWYER was pressuring US BOTH, IN PERSON, for when to file (first chance is around Valentine's Day), that he doesn't love Bimbo, he loves me, but he needs some space and time."
Discovered OW1: 1/10, H refused to talk. H moved in w 1st OW: 3/10 H cheated on OW1: 12/10 H left OW1, moved in w OW2: 4/11 D: 9/11 Still miss H. Don't understand, H just left, never even talked w me.