One thing that did stand out that perturbs me a bit is the " matter of fact " way in which she discussed talking about splitting up our household stuff tomorrow. Not a hint of regret, longing, remorse, sadness or anything similar. Very business like and impersonal, which gives me the impression this is still going to be for quite some time in her mind. Just when you start thinking your making progress or seeing a sliver of daylight......... SIGH.
I KNOW I cant, but I SO want to tell her " Look ! I solved everything, I can afford this new place on my own, Im going back to school, ( From her own words and third parties I KNOW she see's the changes I've made and just isnt convinced their permanent), our kids DESERVE this from us to try , you dont have to worry about working and can go back to school , etc etc etc .
But she's VERY stubborn, and admitted she holds grudges......
