The adventure chronicles--moving on

[AFWAW]

So, for the most part my ex has left me alone. There have been a few random calls which I have ignored. I suspect that she is calling less due to the fact that she has a boyfriend now. She did call and leave a message today about Father's day with regard to my daughter. It was nothing that could not have been handled through email though. So, my question to the crowd is, would it be unreasonalbe to send her an email letting her know that I won't be accepting anymore of her phone calls and anything she has to say can be sent via email. I've been thinking about this for a bit and have thought it may come off as childish but it will certainly help me if I never have to hear her voice again.

Meanwhile, I've been concentrating on me. I go to the gym everyday whether I feel like it or not. At night I spend time with my daughter. I have caught myself feeling down somewhat lately though and I'm ready for this feeling to be gone--anytime now but for some reason it is not.

I know I made the right decision but for some reason don't care to celebrate.

Of note, the one interaction I had with my ex was in regard to my daughter's cell phone. I got her one in accordance with the divorce agreement. It doesn't work at my wife's condo though--no coverage for T-mobile. My ex told me that I needed to get a prepaid phone for her to use there during the time of her visitation as she could not afford it and that if I didn't she would be forced to withhold child support to provide her with a phone. I said, if it's that important to you why don't you get a home phone? She once again said she couldn't afford it. I told her I would look into it. I did, I talked with my lawyer and told her off my ex's threat to withhold child support and explained the cell phone deal. She smiled and said, if she chooses that route, let me know and I will file for contempt of court and they will garnish her wages. She told me to keep in mind that she signed a legally binding document which she agreed to as indicated with her signature and that any deviation would be considered contempt in a judge's view. So, I will not be providing my daughter with an additional phone.

Meanwhile, I cannot wait to move. I have had my house on the market for 1 1/2 months now. Lots of lookers but not one offer. I have 4 months till I move so I'm trying to stay optimistic about that.

For now, I'll try to focus on what's important.