Neither of us really want to D, but we all know how difficult it can be to rebuild.
Honestly, I don't know that it is that hard to rebuild.
It's hard for people to change sometimes, and things like improving communication, doing the the right thing, and just letting yourself be happy in the context of two people, when neither or one is unwilling to change is next to impossible however.
Rebuilding would take time. Starting over takes time.
I say that from the perspective, I must admit, of somebody whose marriage is dead and soon to be officially pronounced dead, but the rebuiding I don't think is any harder than anything else.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-