Unless I saw her make some 180's I'll be royaly po'd if it does not happen.
Crazy, but the only chance I see of us making it work is her being D for a few years and being lonely enough to make some changes. I may be long gone by then.
I told her this...to which she agreed and moaned. ?????
When you're done, you will no longer give stuff like this any thought and if she were to come to you and ask for a chance your answer would be "nope."
That's done.
Take your time. It sounds like you may still have things to work through.
